WTH is happening to Marriages nowadays???

Beautiful people, good evening and Happy Sunday....Hope y'all went to church? Lazy me, I no go. #coversface.

Alright, back to the reason why I'm writing this post. I woke up to something terrible this morning...It was so unexpected, and it shocked me to my bone marrow!

There is this neighbour of ours, A well devoted Christian couple (SU, as You, guys will say :).
So, I woke up this morning and I met them fighting and shouting at each other ...it was even their noise that woke me up.

They got married in 2013 and their union has been blessed with a 1-year-old, little girl.

"What causes their fight?" Did you ask?

Well, I learnt that they have been fighting since the beginning of this year. They will fight (Hey! It's not as if they are exchanging blows o, Ehn Ehn :-)), but they will have one or two misunderstanding and the husband's uncle will call the two of them and settle it. We didn't even know they are not in good terms with one another, not until this morning.

For the past 6 months, the wife's mother have been living with them. And we thought they living happily together, not knowing that, the reversed is the case.
The wife made it known to us that The husband is not happy with it at all...According to the wife, he has not been greeting his mother-in-law for the past 2 weeks and he went as far as, packing and separating their properties -wedding gifts, clothes etc!
She also cried out that, he has been sleeping in the sitting room for a while now and whenever he's going out, he will lock it. The wife and her mother no longer have access to the sitting room, which the wife claimed they both bought the chairs and other furniture in the place!

Yesterday, the wife said he forcefully broke into the room, while she was sleeping and forcefully take away their child. She said he didn't cover the kid, with blanket till dawn (Imagine! In this harmattan season).
So she confronted him this morning and yelled at him for exposing their only child to harsh weather...This, in one-way-or-the-other, got the husband angry, that, he started raining curses on the wife and even tried to beat her!
And that was how they started fighting and if not for my parents, they'd have exchanged blows. 
Mehn...it was a bad thing to see, knowing how devoted they are as a Christian.

The husband went to church and he didn't  come back until their Pastor, his uncle and some church elders ordered him to come home, that they are with his wife.
Meanwhile, before then, his mother-in-law has left the house. So, the uncle ordered her to call her mother back home. Which she at first declined but later on, agreed. She called her mother and she came.
To cut the long story short, they called all of them into the sitting room, and they continue talking and talking for about 3 hours till they were able to resolve the conflict! Hallelujah! :-)

Now, I've got a question for Y'all...
Should any relative or family member of either the husband or the wife, be living with a couple??? Cos, those couple marriage is not even up to 5 years, and the wife was already shouting  "mi o see mo" meaning, I'm no more doing in English. #SMH
What will have happened to their little girl?..*sigh*

Comments

  1. its not advisable for parents to live with newly wedded couple except if she is to come and babysit.if it were to be husband mum the woman wont find it comfortable.imagine the mother staying with them for six month,its too much.the mother has disrespected herself in the first place.

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    1. Kkk, They have help them to resolve it but the wife's mother is no more staying with them. She left on Sunday

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  2. Too bad. Just like the new super story, I dont think the mother is the problem. Atleast they have been having problems before the mother came. Me dont support relatives staying with us though. Make dem allow me and hubby enjoy our life


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